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热心网友 时间:2024-10-31 11:11
I will tell you the biggest regrets in my life. As you know that the one child policy is implemented since 1980 in China, 7 years after I was born. So I like the most of Chinese young adults I am the only child in my family. And my parents didn't have enough time to take care of me, so I stayed with my grand parents all the time before my 10 years old.
My grandpa is a very traditional people. First I am not a boy, evenmore I am not his only grand daughter. So he never pay more attention to me. But I don't care it very much, because I got a good care and love from my grandma.
My granda was working in the college, she is full of passion and sympathy. She never leave my alone. She will manage to taking me to her office. Before I went to college, I spent most of the time to play in her school.
The bad days begun since my uncle's boy was born. I got less attention both from my grandpa and grandma. I became silence and unhappy. My class mates bullied me very often. My mother found that and my parents decided to stay with me. I will visit my grandma at every New Year with my parents together.
I knew she loved me as always just as she cared about other brothers and sisters. It makes me feel better. But I cares more about my myth than my grandma. I don't know what to say when we met. She just kept say taking care of my self and hard working. After I back home and visit her during my overseas study, she just kept saying marry a good man and be happy. I hate that, it is very annoying. I can not be patient anymore.
Last summer vacation, I stayed two weeks in my hometown. I attended the wedding of my highschool classmate and party with my friends and short term travel with my parents. My grandma called me asking me to visit her and I refused. I said I didn't have time to visit. I didn't back home at the Spring festival, my mother asking me calling my grandma to send my respects. I don't want to hear any subject about marriage at the New Year. I promise I will visit her when I came back to home town two month after.
But you may guess what happend after. I came to visit her as I promised but at the graveyard. The last word I said to her is I am sorry, I didn't have enough time to see you. This is the biggest regrets I did to her. I swear I will listen what she said if She is alive. But I will never get this chance. I just want to tell you guys, never say you are busy to your beloved ones, because time flies, you don't know what will happen next.