有两句话我是比较欣赏的：生命是一种过程;事业是一种结果。我们每一个人活是活在每一天的，假如说你每一天不高兴，你把所有的每一天组合起来，就是你一辈子不高兴，但是假如说你每一天都高兴了，其实你一辈子就是幸福快乐的!有一次我在往黄河边上走的时候，我就用矿泉水瓶灌了一瓶子的水，大家知道黄河水特别浑，后来我就放在路边上，大概有一个小时左右呢，让我非常吃惊的发现，四分之三已经变成了非常清澈的一瓶水，而只有四分之一呢，是沉淀下来的泥沙。那假如说我们把这瓶水的清水部分比喻我们的幸福和快乐，而把那个浑浊的那个泥，沉淀的泥沙比喻我们的痛苦的话，你就明白了，当你摇晃一下以后，你的生命中整个充满的是浑浊，也就是充满都是痛苦和烦恼，但是当你把心静下来以后，尽管泥沙总的分量一点都没有减少，但是它沉淀在你的心中，因为你的心比较沉静，所以就再也不会被搅和起来，因此你生命中的四分之三就一定是幸福和快乐。什么叫事业是一种结果呢，大家都知道，作为一件事情，确实是无情的，假如说我把新东方做失败了，我是绝对得不到今天到这儿来给大家讲话的机会的，原因是因为它最后的结果在这儿，所以任何事情只要你在做的时候，他就不能算成功，比如说我们说曹雪芹是成功的，不管是社会主义还是资本主义，都得承认曹雪芹是中国历史上最伟大的文学家之一，我们说牛顿是成功的，不管哪一个国家任何一个人都会承认他是世界上最伟大的科学家之一，我认为我自己是成功的，不成功在新东方做了多大，也不成功在我有多少钱，或有多少朋友，我认为我成功在我有一种心态，过去我摔倒过千万次，以后我也可能还会摔倒千万次，但是我依然能够爬起来。对于你做事情来说，事情的结果怎么样，在社会人的眼中，是成功的惟一的标准!
There are two words that I appreciate: Life is a process; career is a result. Everyone live live in every day, if every day you upset you every day all combined, is your life happy, but if you happy every day, in fact, your life is happy Happy! Time I go to the Yellow River, I use mineral water bottles filling a bottle of water, we all know that the Yellow River water is particularly muddy, then I placed on the side of the road, about an hour or so, so I am very surprise, found that three-quarters have become a very clear and a bottle of water, and only a quarter of it is settling down sediment. That if we put a bottle of water to fresh water part of the metaphor of our happiness and joy, and that that mud, muddy sediment precipitation metaphor of our pain, you understand, when you shake it after your life in whole is full of pollution, that is full of all the pain and trouble, but when you calm down, despite the sediment total weight at all did not decrease, but it is deposited in your heart, because your heart is quiet, so we never mix up three-quarters of your life must be happiness and joy. What is the cause of a result, we all know that as one thing, it really is relentless, if New Oriental I do fail, I am absolutely not here today to give you the opportunity to address the reasons because its final results here, so anything as long as you do it, he can not be considered successful, for example, we said Cao Xueqin success, whether socialist or capitalist, would have to admit that Cao Xueqin Chinese history one of the greatest writers, we say that Newton is successful, whatever nation or any people would admit that he is one of the greatest scientists in the world, I consider myself to be successful, unsuccessful New Oriental much not successful how much money I have or how many friends I think I succeeded in that I have a state of mind, I fell in the past more than 10 million times, the future I may also fall thousands of times, but I'm still able to get up. For how you do things, things like, the eyes of people in society, it is the only standard of success!
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